New York, NY -- Ever since New York actress Laurie Graff wrote a novel about her 15 years of dating hell, men have been coming to her to confess their low down dirty ways.

Graff's book, "You Have To Kiss A Lot of Frogs" (Red Dress Inc.), came out last month, and, since then, she's had several ex-boyfriends, pals and even her lawyer admit to her how badly they've treated women.

One ex wrote Graff a five-page e-mail explaining why he led her on when they dated seven years ago, and another finally admitted that he'd been cheap and inconsiderate to her.

Another beau was mad that his bad behavior wasn't included in her novel, while a friend asked her if he could appear in her next book.

But while the novel has made so many men confront their mistreatment of women, it hasn't reformed them. Graff says most of the guys who spill their guts to her are content to remain jerks, because, as one explained, "it's just so attainable."

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